If we can give advice in a pleasant way, as not to demean another I am all for it. I received advise from a Great call maker once who came across a bit crass but, that was my interpetation. Turns out he was a little upset at the time with himself due to me being a new callmaker at an event we both were set up at, and he was getten spanked. We have become friends and he admitted his attitude was due to his disbelief of the way things were playing out. If we place ourselves in the other guys' shoes before we give a knee jerk response to something we dissagree with or think does not stack up to our own thoughts or ideas of what is, we can control the response much easier. IMO